After 15+ years in ministry with LGBTQ+ people, I have heard too many heartbreaking stories of people investing in church communities only to be blind-sided down the road when informed they could not contribute in meaningful ways. I have seen people lose their faith in the face of this kind of spiritual trauma. This is unacceptable. Churches who over-promise LGBTQ+ inclusion will do significant harm. Let's put an end to the "bait and switch" and be clear in what our commitments of hospitality and justice really mean.